Showing posts with label neighbours. Show all posts
Showing posts with label neighbours. Show all posts

Thursday, 18 June 2020

Brain Dead Boring Boomber Bastards Next Door

Its been over a month, so I've come to terms with something... Some people are just horrid.

We'll just dial back the clock, 1945.... VE Day... All four of my grandparents were serving in the war effort, Solider, Sailor, Nurse & Land Army Girl respectively.  It was their war, their life, and I respect that immensely.

I made a video to that effect a head of VE Day.


However, with the lockdown, my wife and I, being in at risk groups didn't plan on anything for a street party out front, not least as our neighbours, as already mentioned in these pages, are quite abhorrent people breaking the rules and putting themselves and others at risk, but we also had no idea there were any such plans a foot... After all, why risk it when we and all of them are in at risk categories?!?!....

So, we sat it out, rightfully and with respect, I do spend a lot of time with my mind cast back to the world wars and I don't think any of my neighbours, unless there's some secret military historian in their ranks, can touch my knowledge of the struggle and suffering inflicted.

It was therefore with some surprise that I've heard on the grape vine how "disgusted" our direct neighbours were of our "ignoring VE Day" and "disrespecting the spirit of the day".

These fools haven't dared say this to our face, these brain dead boring boomer bastards won't face me and say a word, and you know what... that makes them pretty horrid in my book.

Thursday, 14 May 2020

My Anti-Lockdown Neighbours

My f**king neighbours, all of them as I do not intend to be specific nor name them, but some shame they should feel as they, daily, continue to be utter and total liabilities in these times of crisis.

We have all sides both aged over 75, one side has both going to different houses around the street as well as accepting visitors and their grand child to stay over, both going out and stopping to stand - without socially distancing - with multiple people.

The other side, similarly aged (if not older) and similarly accepting visitors, sneakier they invite visitors in via their side gate directly off of the curbside.  In an ineffectual attempt to hide their reception.

Another, a lone old woman again in at least her mid 70's accepting visits from different neighbours.

None of these households are actually self isolating, they believe they are but simply aren't.  All are visiting shops, all are going to locations where they could and surely at some might will pick up the virus and mixing with people who could carry it.

It beggars belief.

Not least as both our direct neighbours can be overheard extolling their efforts in the virus lockdown, extolling the death toll... When they flagrantly disregard the rules in their axis of bullshit.

No gloves, no masks, they come and go, visiting houses with kids.  Indeed kids on this street are out playing, mixing and swapping sweat and spit... I'm put in mind of kids being made to mix when chicken pox was about.

Except unlike chicken pox, taken early, corvid is a mortal threat to all and any age.

The fools.

Saturday, 21 September 2019

Annoying Neighbours Update - The Solicitor Speaks

How have things gone with the annoying neighbours?.... Well, from bad to worse, though they'd argue otherwise.

A turn up for events, which gave us hope they'd seen things with a modicum of empathy they started to park one of their cars in front of their house, not in front of ours.  The other one remained where it was, but remember we'd been told they planned to clear the garage out and move one car into their.... So we were under graces that there'd now be one car out of sight and the other in their own double garage.... NO MORE CARS ON MY LAND....

Except, immediately, this meant they had one car parked and a space.... or what everyone coming to their house took to be a space... and they had a slew of visitors, ranging from a few hours to overnight stays, all coming and going too-ing and fro-ing using the right hand end of my drive as their parking spaces.

It struck us immediately that they've only moved the car to free up a space and please themselves, it was NOTHING to do with empathy for us.

We've tried to speak to them, we've sent them a nice letter setting out a few rules and granting basic permission so long as they tow the very thin rules, but to no avail, we've tried to mediate and let them but giving and inch simply seemed to see a mile taken.

It was solicitor time.

We actually spoke to our solicitor in July, he's asked us to just sit on the topic, see if it was a one off and to be stern with ourselves to ask "are you being unreasonable", but then these visitors started and then th eguy began using the area as a place to drill out and nail length of wood - nails or gawd knows what potentially going down the hill onto my drive - and then with the doors open on thei double garage all summer as he's been "working" in their... it became apparent it was a joke, they'd unilaterally decided to convert part of their buildings for another use and their solution to parking was to just park on my land.

So, our solicitor did his thing, and he turned up an interesting covenant from the original construction of the houses..... That the occupants of that house can not do anything which disturbs or which causes a loss of environment for occupiers of my house.... This was set out in 2002 when they were built.  There is apparently an auxiliary list of things, like not parking a vehicle in front of the garages, no vehicles, caravans, storage units or other unsightly items to be stored unless explicitly agreed and not for more than reasonable for the purpose of access... So, lets say they were moving house and they hired a huge van, they could ask and I would reasonably say it could be parked there maybe over night, or for a few days whilst they moved... see... but not for ever, not the norm.

Our solicitors letter was quite to the point and polite.  We know it was sent yesterday.... it clearly just arrived.

The woman from next door is literally out stalking the street telling anyone and everyone who'll listen of her plight.  I'm sure she's making something up about her being old and their having been reasonable, and it being us whom are unreasonable.

What she doesn't quite get is, I'll hear all this, I'll hear what she's been saying, I'll extend my solicitors instructions on any defamation occurring.  And that we're in the right, we have all the photographic proof of cars routinely being there and coming and going, visitors, family and their own... Which are not just for access, but are to park literally occupy that end of my drive way, in full or part the cars are parked on my drive that's the point.

And you may recall my attempts to speak to them:
* Moving in day - totally overwhelmed me, gave them verbal permission to carry on as we saw no harm.

* Easter 2019 - verbally he approached me to check whether being "so far your land" was acceptable - for you and your wife yes - and he immediately had visitors, a camper van thing and then his daughters parking all the time, they'd even go so far to move their own car down onto the road to make space for the vistors to park (and these aren't infirm visitors, these are fully able bodied people - before that comes up).

* Camels back - The incident of my asking them not to park cars there and the guy went crying at me, then crying at the other neighbour, and then later his wife came over and when I asked about the cars not parking there, especially the large camper van thing she said "Camper van, do you not know how much that cost?" - I don't really care love, move it.

* The massive blow out - their visitor had completely blocked the drive the day my Rabbit needed vetinary care, utter nightmare... But they didn't even have the decency to talk to me about it.  This was when the next day, I stopped to just heads up about it, I was even going to say "That's not your fault he'd parked there, just ask them to move, no biggy" - and the guy just literally moaned at me and waved his hands as he could not be bothered with me...

Solicitor time, done, lets see what the idiots say, we've been basically advised if they've got a large double garage and have found a space besides their property for a car anyway, they shouldn't be parking at all in front of mine ever and a judge would essentially conclude they have adequate parking and their repurposing the building shouldn't impact on the use, enjoyment of environment of our property.

This whole thing is long since due, as we understand it, the vendors who sold to us; very sneakily not mentioning these issues; moved partly because of this issue, except they themselves had enflamed the problem by blocking the right of way... Instead of talking and checking their rights, the old fella who lived at mine before me just pulled his cars forward to completely block the road... which put him himself at a loss.

So, here we are just shy of a year of moving in, finally getting it down official, don't park on my land kids, go park on your own or the road, enjoy!

Wednesday, 18 September 2019

1am Cavalry : A follow up

As a follow up to the horses being loose the other night, my wife and I were the ONLY people to go out and get them home, to corral them out of the street and back up the hill, to wake the yard owner and get her and her partner to help get them safe.... THE ONLY PEOPLE.

Yet, my wife has been stopped three times by people to tell her all about it... As though they were there.

Folks who were NOT there, who were NOT out helping, who do not even own horses, "Have you heard about the horses, they were up and down here".

One woman even said "Oh yes, I looked out and saw you were on it so knew they'd be safe"... Really, two people sorting out nine loose horses, you were a lot of help, jog on, love... Jog on.

The arrogance of these people, trying to feel involved, especially when they try to patronize that they know all about it and they're doing you a favour of involving you.... I think they feel that by telling you about their little world they're involved in the community, but their community is based on gossip and bullshit, there's nothing solid to it, nothing real about their little suburban folly.

It's a little bit sickening.  

You were not involved, watching out of the window does not make you part of the solution, it does not make you part of events, to be involved you have to get out and get doing.

Total idiots these people, total and utter idiots, and they've quite annoyed the both of us.